Dear, Our Guest
We are getting married, and we would like you there. One day, two ceremonies, and a garden we have been quietly planning around for a year.



We are getting married, and we would like you there. One day, two ceremonies, and a garden we have been quietly planning around for a year.


I always thought love was a grand gesture, a sweeping romance from stories. But it’s really the quiet comfort of shared silence.
Daughter of
Budi Santoso & Dewi Santoso
The second daughter of Budi and Dewi Santoso. Ceramicist, early riser, and far better at speeches than he is.
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I always thought love was a grand gesture, a sweeping romance from stories. But it’s really the quiet comfort of shared silence.
Son of
Robert Wijaya & Susan Wijaya
The eldest son of Robert and Susan Wijaya. Architect, hopeless cook, and the reason this invitation exists at all.
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We met in the queue for bad coffee at a design conference neither of us wanted to attend. Hans was there for the free tote bag. Melinda was there for the talk he had just walked out of.
Three years of Jakarta and Singapore, of last flights out on Sunday nights and calls that ran until one of us fell asleep first. We learned that distance is only expensive if you are not sure.
On the balcony of the flat we had just signed for, with nothing in it but a mattress and a kettle. Melinda said yes before the sentence was finished, which Hans maintains does not count.
We would rather not do the next part without you in the room. Come early, stay late, and dance badly with us.
l. M.H. Thamrin No.Kav. 28-30, Gondangdia, Kec. Menteng, Jakarta, Daerah Khusus Ibukota Jakarta 10350
ln. Kelapa Nias X Blok PE2 No. 17, Kelapa Gading Permai, Pegangsaan Dua, RT.8/RW.18, Pegangsaan Dua, Kec. Klp. Gading, Jkt Utara, Daerah Khusus Ibukota Jakarta 14250
Jl. Kelapa Nias X Blok PE2 No. 17, Kelapa Gading Permai, Jakarta Utara

Doors open at the garden foyer. Please be seated fifteen minutes before the ceremony.
The ceremony begins promptly. We kindly ask that phones stay silent and the aisle stays clear.
A quiet hour with both families at the Wijaya family home.
Doors open at the Ritz-Carlton. Dinner is served from seven, with speeches from both families.
The floor opens after the first dance. Please use it.

Soft sage, sand and white. Garden underfoot, so please think twice about heels.
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Congratulations to you both! Wishing Hans and Melinda every happiness — and a marriage as steady as those Sunday night phone calls.
So happy for you two. May your home always be full of good food and worse jokes.
Selamat menempuh hidup baru! Thank you for letting us be there for this one.
From the balcony with the kettle to this. We could not be prouder of you both.
Wishing you a lifetime of it. Save me a seat near the dessert table.















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